Sometimes I need to just reflect and to let myself be the way my kids see me.
They love me, they think I can make/fix anything.
And even with my angry voice they know I still love them.
I listen to why they feel that way. And I try to make sure they know I do whats best and to explain why.
But Im not afraid to let them make mistakes or to fall down.
I dont rush to their side when they fall and scrape their knee, but I will ask what happened, repeat it back and then doc it up.
I Try to teach them that if you fall you get back up, just try something a little different and to learn from the mistake.
I want the best for them but I dont want them to think things just grow in trees/happen.
I want them to be accountable.
I love to have fun with them, to play and explore.
I like to see them happy to help in the kitchen either baking or cleaning.
I love to hear them laugh and play together, and ask me to play to.
Some of the best days out we have are planned by them. (Dig holes, swing, slide, eat, nap, and repeat)
I read today that J.K. Rolling said " Once I hit rock bottom I found a solid foundation to build my life on." --- Wow..
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